tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post21308860097328895..comments2023-06-26T11:23:50.414+01:00Comments on Black, Woman and Winning!: Who's Zoomin Who???Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger175125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-39677939484345315872016-07-24T00:12:49.117+01:002016-07-24T00:12:49.117+01:00Thank you for sounding the ALARM! And providing us...Thank you for sounding the ALARM! And providing us BW with the research to open our �� To the truth! Black males have never wanted BW. From the Moors to the Pan Africanists to the Black Panthers to the Civil rights leaders, ad infinitum. It was only because of White people's anti-miscegenation laws. Those laws were the buttress that prevented BMs from seeking the company of their real heart's desire-the White Woman. When those laws were rescinded the BM left the BW in droves. Black woman must understand this and make a serious decision. They will have to be open to relationships with other races/nations of males, be open to lesbianism, or be open to celibacy and solitude. I have opted for the 3rd. However, I know that this is not possible for many BW as they may be young and desirous to have a companion in their life. Neely Fuller, author of The United/Independent Compensatory Code, stated to me recently : "Black women are doing Black men a WHALE of a favor to even speak with us BMs because we have done nothing to protect, cherish, and defend Black Women in the past and up to the present moment." Be Wise BW only YOU alone have your own Back!estellelighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03673396117547282871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-59561619322698987862016-07-18T18:52:08.613+01:002016-07-18T18:52:08.613+01:00Yes. MLK was going to marry a white woman while he...Yes. MLK was going to marry a white woman while he was up north at college. He planned to move back to Georgia after graduation and knew he had better not / or risk being lynched and/ or he and his family would be severely persecuted for life. She saidv''no thank you'.tianitrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07892206543765474531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-55653418418231762512015-12-21T01:54:13.453+00:002015-12-21T01:54:13.453+00:00This speaks to the self hate that they harbour des...This speaks to the self hate that they harbour despite shouting that they are Pan-Africanist. Creating an illusion that they are fully confident in who they are and their Africaness, while marrying outside their race to attempt to whiten their family tree. And the people on here calling others foolish for wanting to marry a man of their own race, it speaks to yall making excuses cause ya really wanna date outside ya race too. Yall just want the black men in high positions that everyone can see and praise, when you dont even match his status, but refuse to work with some who has potential and ambition. As for me, im never going out of my race. I find that people who do suddenly distance themselves from the responsibility of giving back and helping their own people. In other words they forget where they came from, which is one of the reasons our communities suffer. until we live in a post racist society, Black women need black men, and black men need black women.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11057444409034920075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-81356074479809863812015-04-29T03:38:40.958+01:002015-04-29T03:38:40.958+01:00I always knew that Black Men wasn't Worthy tha...I always knew that Black Men wasn't Worthy that we go and try to save him or working with them for something. I'm so disgusted by this. Black Men are so hypocrite ! They think that they are so smart when they are stupid. I feel like all Black movement have never exist, that it's just a joke. Black Men are so disgusting. Anyway it's been awhile that i think that Black Women should let Black Men faces their fate alone. Black woman has been patient for to long. it's maybe time for a divorce.<br />Thanks Halima for telling the truthAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12700575789639729319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-56114553343873140432014-11-06T12:58:30.606+00:002014-11-06T12:58:30.606+00:00Most likely people marry those whom they are in cl...Most likely people marry those whom they are in close association with. Many of these leaders and scholars were always in the company of Caucasians while living in Europe. I believe many of them saw it (maybe subconsciously) as showing the Caucasian males that "we are just as good as you are." See your women love us despite our ethnicity. In the past when one nation conquered another, they showed they were now the masters of the conquered nation by taking their women sexually. This is what Caucasian males did to our people historically and I believe these leaders and scholars (of course subconsciously) felt that they should return the favour. I know for a fact that most Caucasian racists hate to see a man of African descent with a Caucasian woman. They don't feel the same for the reverse (Caucasian male with woman of African descent). Outside the subject: we must stop calling Caucasians "white." You are feeding their egos by calling them that. The definition of white is always of something wonderful and good. You are feeding their racism by calling them white.Chiniquyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03710431122714088949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-15032553153438336092013-01-01T03:51:32.014+00:002013-01-01T03:51:32.014+00:00All I can say is O...M...G!!!! I'm totally spe...All I can say is O...M...G!!!! I'm totally speechless. Thanks for this article. You learn something new every day.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09457338983603665885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-36368883153835836332012-09-26T05:03:31.632+01:002012-09-26T05:03:31.632+01:00You are awesome. That is all.You are awesome. That is all.HomeschoolNewbehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16366313657449329368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-32077057107416688232012-09-17T16:44:24.388+01:002012-09-17T16:44:24.388+01:00Wow what a great post! This post has confirmed my ...Wow what a great post! This post has confirmed my suspicion of bm. I have always believed that bm hate bw and they hate their own children. If a man loves his woman and his kids he will not abandon them. I also agree that bm do not love themselves, which is why I no longer date bm because I will not date someone who doesn't love himself. How can bm expect to be loved if they don't love themselves?? As for the bw who are loyal to these self hating bm to a fault, they are foolish to think that their loyalty will someday be rewarded with love from bm. I cannot stress this enough to my bw friends who continue to have relationship with these men and bare their kids.<br />Like I said, black men hate black women. They will never love us or protect us. Nor will they jump to our defense when someone has wronged us.The Hypergamous Mindsethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04713795660288361167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-7134989050277043552011-04-02T00:37:18.317+01:002011-04-02T00:37:18.317+01:00okkk...but i gotta take issue with frederick dougl...okkk...but i gotta take issue with frederick douglass being added (in a comment, not the post). frederick douglas was married to his firts wife, a dark-skinned black woman, for over 40 years before she died. then, only once he was a very old man, did her= marry a white woman. for who knows what reason, but i don't think frederick douglas can really be included here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-24192799074791885612011-04-02T00:24:35.859+01:002011-04-02T00:24:35.859+01:00oh well, then i see your point. although an egypti...oh well, then i see your point. although an egyptian coptic, its their preference to not be too african looking, or darker skinned. true, good point.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-58587707505719094982011-04-02T00:14:12.607+01:002011-04-02T00:14:12.607+01:00i hear what you all are saying, but i gotta correc...i hear what you all are saying, but i gotta correct you on kwame nkrumah. his wife fathia was 100% african - an egyptian coptic. not white.many pure africans, like coptics or moroccan berbers are light skinned africans. not to be confused with arabs, who are mixed with african, but not total africans like coptics.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-349560941957090002011-04-02T00:08:58.024+01:002011-04-02T00:08:58.024+01:00sorry, but kwame nkrumah's wife was not white ...sorry, but kwame nkrumah's wife was not white at all. she was a 100% pure egyptian coptic woman, an african. she would be no different than light-skinned black women in the U.S. or brazil, etc.<br /><br />so two africans from different copuntries married each other - one dark, one light (and not like south african light, i.e. white). <br /><br />Fathia Nkrumah's all African.<br /><br />I think someone maybe misguiding you on someof your facts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-53178965911351862012010-09-13T17:36:27.010+01:002010-09-13T17:36:27.010+01:00Great post!
Thank you for the vision.
I've ech...Great post!<br />Thank you for the vision.<br />I've echoed it on my blog and added a couple of current day cases...<br /><br />All the best!Kolukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04635805676701525012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-79974438320546653122010-06-10T03:14:15.706+01:002010-06-10T03:14:15.706+01:00"I'm Nigerian-American and have spent equ..."I'm Nigerian-American and have spent equal parts of my life in both places. One thing I learned at an early age growing up back home is that women have to look out for their own BEST interest FIRST and have STRONG BOUNDARIES.<br /><br />For whatever reason, African woman across the whole diaspora are conditioned/taught to GIVE GIVE GIVE and GIVE w/o expecting nothing or little in return."<br /><br />PREACH!!!aaonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-39948809462621714602010-03-08T10:02:00.897+00:002010-03-08T10:02:00.897+00:00As a Caribbean Black woman I never understood the ...As a Caribbean Black woman I never understood the dying devotion American Black women have for men who don't appreciate them.<br />As for the person who commented about Caribbean Black women not happy with this movement,you are fool of bs. Caribbean women are not just Blacks so why would they care who Black American women date?<br />We don't have that hang up when it comes to dating,we were aways openly mixing.This is why you see someone like Garcelle Beauvais or Heater Headley,I think I have her name right,are both married to White men.<br />In Jamiaca you will find plenty of Black women with Asian men,such as in Trinidad and Tobago.<br />While America is the melting pot but people are somewhat still segregated mentally.<br />I have never hear the women in my family complaining about not finding a good man or waiting for a good Black man.I hear this mostly from American Black women.<br />Majority of men/women in family are married to Black,White,etc......<br /><br />The only group of men my father told to stay away from are American Black men because of what he sees on tv as their culture.He think that most are lazy and not responsible.Well of course we know you can find that in any group.<br /><br />I have many White male friends who appreciate Black women.Well unfortunately Americans don't realized that just because we have the same skin, it doesn't mean that we always share the same culture.Meaning that some of these White American men think all Black women are the same.<br />I do think some are learning it's the American women who are mainly waiting for a good Black man,therefore not giving non-Black men a chance.<br /><br /><br />I had to explained to them foreign Black women,/ non-Black American women are open to date White men,etc...We also don't have the hang up about how the White man raped us in the past.<br />We don't hold so much anger to the point where it is affecting us.<br /><br />Caribbean women have no problem meeting men,so there's no jealousy on our part.<br />Hey many White European men travel to the Caribbean to meet women,some marry these women and moved back to Europe with them.<br />Hey even Black American men are traveling to the Caribbean but unfortunately some Caribbeans don't have a good view towards American Blacks.<br /><br />So they will accept the White man in their family faster,sad but it's true.I think it's more about culture. <br /><br />Two of my female cousins did married American Black men.<br />I'm not saying that all Caribbean people have family values but some of us do.<br />The men in our family did provide for their family even if they had to work 2-3 jobs,lol.I know In Living color used to make fun at us Caribbeans for that.<br /><br />Anyway one of them couldn't keep a job and he lied to my cousin about alot of things in regard to his family. She tried so hard to make the marriage work but he couldn't handle the responsibility.He took care of his car more than he did for his family.<br /><br />Now she is a single mother with 3 kids and our family look down on her.<br />She's lucky that she has supportive family who are helping her,otherwise she would have been in alot of trouble.<br /><br />I think that American Black women should keep their options open.<br /><br />Hep Pep,from that group is dating an Asian man and I think he's a doctor as well.<br /><br />excuse my English it's my third language.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-78328228947744484162010-02-26T00:47:54.387+00:002010-02-26T00:47:54.387+00:00As a Black man I wasn't aware there was a tabo...As a Black man I wasn't aware there was a taboo about interracial dating for black women. The fact of the matter is that from my own small circle of black female friends I would venture to say that over 70 percent have dated white or arab men. As a race our rainbow hue of colors suggest their was some racial intermingling afoot even in the days of Jim Crow and I would venture to say that this consisting of mostly black women and white men . What I am saying is, life is short and if you find someone that makes you twinkle than be with them.MICHAELhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13642981384165253141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-18608888969007000632010-02-21T04:10:00.925+00:002010-02-21T04:10:00.925+00:00Karyn L. Folan,
Thank you for your kind words and...Karyn L. Folan,<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words and support; I truly appreciate it!<br /><br />I'm the proud owner of the Kindle version of your book; and I've had the pleasure of hearing you do an amazing job of presenting MARRIAGE FREEDOM OF CHOICE for BW on another BW blogger's podcast radio show. {deep martial arts bow in salute}<br /><br />I know you'll keep up the outstanding work that you're doing!<br /><br />Peace, blessings and solidarity.Khadijahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07732325133964607276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-91605140960324881732010-02-19T04:55:26.752+00:002010-02-19T04:55:26.752+00:00The dynamics WM/BF relationships during slavery ar...The dynamics WM/BF relationships during slavery are far more varied than most realize. <br /><br />Do you have any sources that I can look up. I've been searching the net, books etc., but it is difficult. I want to write a period BWIR story and I am looking for any information I can get.<br /><br />You know this post is contraditory because your encouraging bw to date outside of their race and argue that the fact that they date other race doesn't mean they are denying their black heritage, culture e.t.c. Yet when bm do it we complain. Damn Right we do. <br /><br />I don't think it's contradictory at all. Mainly because many women in all cultures tend to support their communities regardless of who they are with vs. men. Well at least with bm anyway, but it does go for other men. Just look at the rich bm who married an aw. What did she do when he died (because he didn't will any of that money, estate etc. to any of the women that helped him get there)she took that money to help her own country. Stop worrying about what grown ass men are doing and worry about yourself as well as the state of black women and girls. That should be your concern. <br /><br />Although i have followed the IR websites i am concerned about the black community as a whole and i wonsder the more we are against each the more it destroys the community. This is just a though maybe IR relationships are dividing us rather then unitying us.<br />W<br /><br />Why are you worrying about a non existent community. The black community doesn't exist. I am not worried about something that isn't there. Why focus on building a community and all that we need to unify ish when the freaking only ones that are going to be trying to unify will be black women. I have to say this and it will seem harsh, but get the hell over it and move the hell on. Because it's you who will be breaking your neck for black love and unity. It ain't gonna happen if the men don't want it. And please hon. IR has been going on for centuries. It's healthy. I don't by the crap about it dividing anything. If you want to stay waiting on bm and dry up preparing and waiting you do that, but please don't try to make us feel guilty for spreading a message that will help us to survive.Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-12331313597875059072010-02-19T03:54:27.001+00:002010-02-19T03:54:27.001+00:00I was recently on a radio program where the host (...I was recently on a radio program where the host (a BM) started quoting "Roots" to me as a justification for why he had issues with IRR. When I explained to him that "Roots" was a work of FICTION, that aimed to DRAMATIZE and tell an entertaining STORY, he had nothing to say because he knew he sounded like a fool!<br /><br />And if he's going to quote Roots then he has to remember the white woman who also mistreated the black slaves. When I was younger I was shocked by that, because the image we've mostly seen of white women in movies with black people. But then I had to take into account that we were owned by them as well. They also see us as property so how will they treat us? <br /><br />I mentioned this before at Interracial Black Woman, but there was a psychology experiment were students went to some prison or place (don't remember)and one group had the authority and the others were the prisoners and they were left alone. The experiment had to be stopped because they saw what happens when someone sees another person as being inferior or property. Absolute power over another person, brought an ugliness out of the people black and white and they weren't expecting that. I think something like this was also done for psychology classes or something and the same thing happened. One teacher whose wife is a psychologist even said that when she was younger she had to do something like this. I think one was an experiment where black people and other people of color were made slave owners or had some form of control over another person and the other group were the slaves etc. The black people and others of color were just as horrible as the white people who had control over someone. So black men need to get out of that the wm slave holder crap, because there were black slave holders. <br />http://americancivilwar.com/authors/black_slaveowners.htm<br />http://www.issues-views.com/index.php/sect/1006/article/1091<br />http://iluvsa.blogspot.com/2009/04/black-slave-owners.html<br />She told us that the last she heard I think it was after she left they stopped experiments like that, because of the horrible acts subjected on other human beings. In other words, we all have the potential to show that type of ugliness no matter the race, gender, culture etc. There is no such thing as black people can't be racist, because of what happened to us as a people. Please! That's a crock of ish!<br /><br />Black men go crazy about Mandigo and how the wm treated slaves etc., but the ww was just as bad. She got pregnant by a black man (which she basically forced to have sex with her), but you don't see them saying they won't get with ww because one raped his grandfather, greatgrandfather etc. or a grandfather, greatgrandfather etc. being lynched or many black men being lynched because a ww acused a bm of raping her. Or a woman who kills her child and then says she saw a black man take her kids or some ish. So black men seriously need to go somewhere with that ish.<br /><br />Sorry for the rant.Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-63214259571560303382010-02-18T18:37:56.648+00:002010-02-18T18:37:56.648+00:00You know this post is contraditory because your en...You know this post is contraditory because your encouraging bw to date outside of their race and argue that the fact that they date other race doesn't mean they are denying their black heritage, culture e.t.c. Yet when bm do it we complain. Damn Right we do. <br />You know what i wanted to say the right things but my first reaction being Ghanaian and have so much respect for Kwame Nkrumah was disappointed. Nkrumah stood up not just for Ghana but Africa. <br />Nkrumah helped to liberate Africa unfortunately with the help of the CIA he was overthrown now his dead and gone African from Egypt to South Africa have respect for him and can see the big picture which he saw all along.<br />Now what upset me is to see at least 5 First African presidents marry white women, it's like why on why could they not show a united front with a woman from their nation. First ladies are role models and for a young black girl to see a black woman in that position is very inspiring. For example i absolutely love Michelle Obama she is a great role model for all women but especially black women and i know without a shadow of a doubt that black girls are being inspired by her. The fact that these men marry white women contradicts the whole Pan African thing because it's like black women are not good enough so they have to go out and collect a white women. So yes in this instance i am probably a hypocrite i don't know why only our black men can't keep their focus and see the bigger picture and instead follow their penis. It's really a shame nevertheless i don't believe in Gender wars don't date outside of your race because our men can't keep their dick in their pants. It's not tit 4 tat. Although i have followed the IR websites i am concerned about the black community as a whole and i wonsder the more we are against each the more it destroys the community. This is just a though maybe IR relationships are dividing us rather then unitying us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-4089550411939202642010-02-12T20:15:08.049+00:002010-02-12T20:15:08.049+00:00Hello All!!
I'm here late in the game, but I ...Hello All!!<br /><br />I'm here late in the game, but I just had to address a couple of issues that stuck out for me.<br /><br />First off, excellent post Halima! As a BW in my 40's, this was not new to me, but should be an eye-opener for the young-uns! <br /><br />"i.e. the fact that a lot of BW DON'T get approached by WM, and its NOT the BW's faults)."<br /><br />....okaay, I have heard this mantra year after year, and now that the John Mayer "scandal" has broken, it's rearing it's ugly head again. <br /><br />My answer to your "fact" - unless you live in the middle of Klanman/skinheadville (and if you do, I suggest you move - NOW!)there will always be a wm who will approach you. If you are approachable. If you are even out there to approach.<br /><br />I hear and see alot of bellyaching about how hard it is and what wm don't want - but I am out and about nite an day, in the thick of things and you know what I don't see? BLACK WOMEN!! Where are we? <br /><br />We don't go to fairs or markets, national parks, museums, bookstores, plays, the symphony , hell even car races- places where single wm abound. Bold wm, that wait til your date leaves and strike up a convo with you! Young, old, short, tall, fat etc...they are out there waiting for you! <br /><br />I remember going to National Park with a friend. While we weren't the only IR couple, I could count the number of bw that were there (7)....but, there were tons of Japanese, Indian, White, etc women out enjoying life. Quit hang dogging, get out of the box and be seen....they ARE waiting for you....<br /><br />@Kat:<br />"I think bw need to realize that they are pretty much alone in this world and have to defend themselves(bw dont even defend each other)."<br /><br />Ummm, no...<br /><br />Kat, I came across a book at the local bookstore, and a passage has stuck in my mind - it applies to us both...<br /><br />"The statute of limitations has expired on pretty much all of your childhood experiences..."<br /><br />Let go, get help, give it to God, whatever...It's time to really LIVE WELL and move on. For if you don't, they win.<br /><br />And to truly LIVE WELL, you must surround yourself with people (women and men alike) that have your best interest at heart. So, let go of all that is not good for your well being, and start to see a change.<br /><br />Hope I havent gone too far off topic...<br /><br />Karen, your book is on my must read list, after Khadija's!Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10534079617865540609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-60113660066864568492010-02-11T01:31:31.921+00:002010-02-11T01:31:31.921+00:00Halima,
This is an amazing discussion. It's...Halima, <br /><br />This is an amazing discussion. It's great to see so many women (and men) engaged with this topic, adding more and more information that makes it very clear that much of this "Black Power" stuff that has held sway in our consciousness for the past forty is years is so much b.s. So is the way history has been interpreted and presented to many of us over the last few decades. The dynamics WM/BF relationships during slavery are far more varied than most realize. <br /><br />I was recently on a radio program where the host (a BM) started quoting "Roots" to me as a justification for why he had issues with IRR. When I explained to him that "Roots" was a work of FICTION, that aimed to DRAMATIZE and tell an entertaining STORY, he had nothing to say because he knew he sounded like a fool! Sure, Roots is based loosely on fact, but Alex Haley (and the screenwriter, William Blinn--BTW an extremely experienced TV writer-- who crafted the adaptation from teh book) wrote a STORY. A good story, perhaps, but still just a tale. It certainly isn't HISTORY! LOL!<br /><br />Unfortunately, most American black folks don't know much more history than Roots. They don't seem to understand that Roots is TV and for the sake of drama, there's good guys and bad guys and lots of conflict. Some BM and BW are "acting" out this simplist, reductionist drama in real life as though Roots is the real story of the AA experience of slavery.<br /><br />As many have said, the facts are out there and it's our responsibility to find them-- and to call out laziness of thought and argument when we're presented with it.<br /><br />On another point, big props to you Khadija for how you handled EshoWoman on your blog. I think your response showed both character and grace. Kudos on your new book--I've ordered my copy and as soon as the snow here lets up and once again packages are being delivered, I'm looking forward to reading it!<br /><br />It's great to see how many comments this discussion has generated (I spent the evening reading them all!) and to know that so many BW are "awake and aware." Some one asked about our responsibility to our sisters who are still sleeping. The first duty, of course, is to protect ourselves and our daughters. But I can't help but think that if each of us keeps teaching and preaching, other lives will be saved!<br /><br />Excellent work, Halima (as usual). Bravo!Karyn L. Folanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01238726147581833093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-11936087047273346122010-02-10T21:40:17.437+00:002010-02-10T21:40:17.437+00:00Great post Halima. There's nothing I can add ...Great post Halima. There's nothing I can add here but humour. I recently came upon this video and thought of your post. I just can't stop laughing. <br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNBt4srCn84&feature=player_embeddedpalmwaternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-33684692028192623062010-02-10T18:00:39.719+00:002010-02-10T18:00:39.719+00:00Br careful we have an interloper
I caught on in th...Br careful we have an interloper<br />I caught on in the latest post about BW in Canada vs. BW ib Europe marrying WM. It's interesting that foreign BW like to tell us American BW to stay with our own , but they have choices where they are. AAW beware of the player haters. Not all BW are our sisters.<br /><br />True that. American BW have to becareful calling all bw and women in general sisters like we need to becareful calling bm brothers.<br />We have to realize that we are going to be seen as competition where there was none before. <br /><br />It seems rather obvious that the majority of African women are not dating/marrying white men of ANY caliber. Most are dating/marrying other Africans.<br /><br />Huda was perhaps being facetious when she tossed in the word "quality".<br /><br />That's may be true and it's just common sense being that most black African women are around mostly black African men , but to say that black African women are not finding men of quality was tacky even if it's trying to be funny or sarcastic (Tip: Men don't generally find sarcasim in a woman funny as we like to think. And now I see there's a good reason they don't)Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-41491454284965547502010-02-10T05:14:39.305+00:002010-02-10T05:14:39.305+00:00Very interesting that the Esho were female royal g...Very interesting that the Esho were female royal guards of the king in ancient Dahomey. Now the intentions behind Esho Woman's posts become clear! She's intent on protecting her "black massa kangs" and will try to get all other BW to do the same.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com