tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post5154043461364280140..comments2023-06-26T11:23:50.414+01:00Comments on Black, Woman and Winning!: Our young black girls are living in toxic environmentsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-66979628719507164252012-06-26T04:09:26.872+01:002012-06-26T04:09:26.872+01:00Something else is going to have to be addressed he...Something else is going to have to be addressed here. The fact that White/non-Black girls in many cases are NOT happy when a Black girl is interested in White/non-Black boys, and act even worse when said boys show interest in a Black girl. This is not a healthy environment for our young Black girls. What needs to be done IMHO is that young Black girls need to be taught that a Black girl who likes non-Black boys is NOT an infidel to be shunned, she is their sister who they should love & support. Our young Black girls should love & support each other, they need solidarity with each other, and NO boys of any race should come between them. They also should be taugh that if it is okay for Black boys to shun them in favor of non-Black girls, then they should NOT be expected to show Black boys any loyalty either.FemmeNoirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07574564617617415943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-20466969770250256832012-06-15T19:20:38.983+01:002012-06-15T19:20:38.983+01:00Its funny: while you wrote this, the American Mili...Its funny: while you wrote this, the American Military was studying black women/girls and see why they are as strong as they are. I think this is what Evia calls an 'okey-doke' a way to diminish or take away or feminity without letting us feel it(not empowering but the opposite)..basically being the b**ch. It lets WW and other kind of women look 'down' on us as a group..NOT INDIVIDUALLY OF COURSE--The BEST THING for the 13 yo girl is to join a multiethnic church--since the 'black church' isnt bearing good enough fruit..our families are ruined with OOW births and abortionsUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07333270614766373086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-33380263006163350722012-06-14T16:56:03.209+01:002012-06-14T16:56:03.209+01:00The good thing is at 13 she started to recognize s...The good thing is at 13 she started to recognize something is "not right" and she acted on her intuition and sought out a superb mentor for guidance. This little girl is way ahead of the curve now. I can only hope that once her bg peers see how much happier she will be, they follow suit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-12117570666011822372012-06-14T15:25:04.634+01:002012-06-14T15:25:04.634+01:00Great advice to that young lady and others who wil...Great advice to that young lady and others who will read your post.<br /><br />Perhaps this young lady will have to wait before she finds White boys who are attracted to her. It seems that in her sphere, the Black boys chase the White girls and the White boys chase the White girls, which means that she is on the outside.<br /><br />Tell her that things will get better and she should seek out forums where the relationship dynamics are more favorable to Black girls. For example, she should join a mixed-race church, a multicultural club for children her age, volunteer for multicultural organizations, etc. Sounds like her current environment is too segregated, which forced her to hang around with "nothing but a Black men" Black girls.<br /><br />Good luck to her!Patricia Kaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07836381858165025496noreply@blogger.com