tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post7236781115430507050..comments2023-06-26T11:23:50.414+01:00Comments on Black, Woman and Winning!: John MayerUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger105125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-82187893550719754572010-02-16T12:31:43.269+00:002010-02-16T12:31:43.269+00:00Neecy:
Where are the White femininsts???? Shouldn...Neecy:<br /><br />Where are the White femininsts???? Shouldn't all women be standing against men downing women regardless if its them or not?<br /><br /><br />Not that I'm excusing any WW who may have ulterior motives for their own gains but the last time NOW and other white feminists stuck up for a black woman who was being degraded, and by a black man at that, was back in the 90s with Anita Hill. I remember seeing white NOW members protesting on Hill's behalf against the sexual harassment from Clarence Thomas.<br /> <br />But because a lot of NOW members may want to appear very liberal and not racist alot of them backed down and out of the fight, after a lot of black men and theirmouthpieces accused white feminists of being racist and trying to tear black men down, the same way black people accused Anita Hill of trying to disgrace a black man high up in a good position.<br /><br />Blacks said the same thing about Desiree Washington when they tried to blame her for the rape incident with Mike Tyson. I think this adds to why a lot of white feminists today may refuse to get in the middle of too much public 'black business'. I don't even blame them, truly I don't. And black women are willing to put up with this mess especially from black men because they've been so cowardly against them. Another reason why BW like Mekare feel scared now.aknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-24058280843919012112010-02-16T12:09:49.472+00:002010-02-16T12:09:49.472+00:00mekare:
Interesting statement. I dont know what t...mekare:<br /><br />Interesting statement. I dont know what that is either. I do know bw have a hard enough time with bm telling them that they are ugly then to have JM say something like that out of the clear blue was a bit too much for me. So what are black women supposed to do? Evaporate? Because I know this one will not be going back to a bm or the bc any time soon. <br /><br />Now I can make cracks about wm or Jewish people or deny the Holocaust and see how he takes it.<br /><br />This guy had a lot of bw fans and he just felt a-okay to dog them like that in public. What the hell is wrong with this guy? I cant even shake that. <br /><br />NO it does not make me think all wm arent attracted to bw or anything like that.<br /><br />The thought does bother me that bw will now have to deal with misogynistic comments and open disrespect from wm like we have to deal with from bm. THAT scares me.<br /><br />And yes stuff like this and other things does make me look at wm differently. I NEVER though wm were perfect but I didnt expect an off the wall comment like that coming from a wm mouth. I can look at people as individuals but you can not cross the line like that and not think that relationships of any kind between bw and wm will be ok.<br /><br /><br /><br />Mekare, If I didn't take the time to consider your feelings before, or let's say if I knew you and we were speaking face to face, I'd tell you that you were taking all of this a bit too strongly or that you are taking too much of this 'Mayer-gate' in! LOL But no, you have a right to feel your own feelings. I just don't see how he's even worth it, but then again I am being superficial because I really don't like his looks. He's not horrid but John Mayer is rather plain to me; he's not my heartthrob anyway!<br /><br />The sad thing is I assume that maybe the reason why you feel scared about the treatment you, I and other BW can face from ANYBODY is because black women themselves cannot stand each other for one reason or another and publicly and loudly show this attitude! So I would understand feeling 'scared and alone' too. Because there's a 'civil war' or 'cold war' kind of feeling going on in our own camp, and when you add the attitude of a lot of BM into the equation, then the whole thing looks like a ridiculous shambles and a misery.<br /><br />Jews, Asians, Arabs, Latinos etc. show a lot more solidarity most of the time even though amongst them they have their own hierarchies or the case where Latinos or Asians from one country cannot stand the ones from another country. They see the bigger picture and are willing to do better for themselves for some reason that black people cannot grasp. No, blacks still have to polish the old light skin, dark skin and hair grade chestnuts and dabble in man- sharing, etc. Good God just take the case!aknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-86276458285814073392010-02-16T02:42:59.038+00:002010-02-16T02:42:59.038+00:00" BW need to start acting like Jewish people...." BW need to start acting like Jewish people. You say something about them, they cut you off at the neck (not physical violence but FINANCIAL VIOLENCE lol). The only way things will change is if BW STOP supporting those who openly disrespect us. Personally I think BW could use a break from the media and entertainemnt. I know its hard to do but maybe its time."<br /><br /><br />AMEN AND AMEN AND AMEN!!!!focusedpurposehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15537118983874391619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-57225306338268806962010-02-16T01:04:08.586+00:002010-02-16T01:04:08.586+00:00Shimmy said:
My reply: That's how I feel too....Shimmy said:<br /><br />My reply: That's how I feel too. I commented on that in my above post that non black women can be very hateful and disrespectful toward us too. They are not innocent either because people are always saying that black women are jealous of other non black women. Like non black women can't be hateful towards us. I'm not just talking about white women either. A lot of the Asian, Arab, Latina and Indian women are like this too. They especially HATE you if you don't fit the negative black female stereotypes. I'm not saying all of them are like that, but a good percentage of them are racist toward us. I think a lot of it comes from hate and jealousy.<br /><br />I 100% agree Shimmy. Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-24952920071032119152010-02-16T00:59:19.153+00:002010-02-16T00:59:19.153+00:00The destruction of the black family started when b...The destruction of the black family started when black men LEFT black women and the black children they produced with black women.<br /><br />The destruction of the black family started when the majority of black men refused to marry the black women that they were sexing.<br /><br />The destruction of the black family started when the majority of black males who were doing well financially decided to create biracial families with non black women instead of black families with black women. <br /><br />That's when the destruction of the black family started.<br /><br />During the days of slavery a black child was more likely to grow up living with both parents than he or she is today.<br />http://www.divorcereform.org/black.html<br /><br />BLACK MEN killed the black family. Not slavery. Not racism. Not white society. And not white men.<br /><br />DON'T FALL FOR THESE JEDI MIND TRICKS SISTAS<br /><br /><br /><br />EXACTLY. THANK YOU anon @ 1:14 PMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-11011777040278794432010-02-15T23:56:48.739+00:002010-02-15T23:56:48.739+00:00White women shouldn't get a free pass on their...White women shouldn't get a free pass on their racism towards Black women on Black women's empowerment blogs, of all places.<br /><br /><br /> My reply: That's how I feel too. I commented on that in my above post that non black women can be very hateful and disrespectful toward us too. They are not innocent either because people are always saying that black women are jealous of other non black women. Like non black women can't be hateful towards us. I'm not just talking about white women either. A lot of the Asian, Arab, Latina and Indian women are like this too. They especially HATE you if you don't fit the negative black female stereotypes. I'm not saying all of them are like that, but a good percentage of them are racist toward us. I think a lot of it comes from hate and jealousy.shimmynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-42364375283922221172010-02-15T23:11:32.112+00:002010-02-15T23:11:32.112+00:00Bellydancer said:
I knew it would only be a matte...<i>Bellydancer said:<br /><br />I knew it would only be a matter of time before a brother showed up here with a government conspiracy with a slice of anti-feminism thrown in to explain thangs. Notice how he blames feminism, welfare and independence for breaking up the black family but says he will not support a league to uplift black women because it focuses too much on them. Then follows up to say most white males are prejudiced and not to worry about John Mayer because of the government conspiracy but yet and still black men are not mentioned as some of the cause of the family break up and again why this tone of discussion when the destruction of the black family is not the main topic </i><br />**********************************<br /><br />My Response:<br /><br />Please note this particular sentence by William:<br /><br /><b> Now,John Mayer was just expressing what most white males have in the back of their mind already.</b><br /><br />Doesn't it seem that William just had to slip in a little **reminder** to us BW that most WM won't want us and will succumb to **indoctrination**?<br /><br />Honestly, I've reached a point where I can't listen even for a second to BP, especially BM talk about "the White Man" and government. I really can't. My main motto in life right now is,<br /><b> Talk is cheap. If you're not doing something to change the situation, then KEEP QUIET and DON'T COMPLAIN.</b>NijaGnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-11881239590764546722010-02-15T19:28:48.526+00:002010-02-15T19:28:48.526+00:00BLACK MEN killed the black family. Not slavery. No...<i>BLACK MEN killed the black family. Not slavery. Not racism. Not white society. And not white men.</i><br /><br /><b>And not the government.</b>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-67662745669275097412010-02-15T18:22:53.919+00:002010-02-15T18:22:53.919+00:00I knew it would only be a matter of time before a ...I knew it would only be a matter of time before a brother showed up here with a government conspiracy with a slice of anti-feminism thrown in to explain thangs. Notice how he blames feminism, welfare and independence for breaking up the black family but says he will not support a league to uplift black women because it focuses too much on them. Then follows up to say most white males are prejudiced and not to worry about John Mayer because of the government conspiracy but yet and still black men are not mentioned as some of the cause of the family break up and again why this tone of discussion when the destruction of the black family is not the main topic<br /><br />williams said... <br />@Neecy, <br /><br />I TOTALLY agree with you about forming some type of organization or league to stop this; HOWEVER, the media is a slicker, they are planning something sinister against not just BW, but minorities as a whole. The whole John Mayer thing is nothing more than a distraction.<br /><br />Please research "government media mind control" to get a good idea of what I am talking about. The gov invaded the black culture through 'hip-hop' music and rap. To understand this invasion, please look up, "mk ultra celebrities' to learn more.<br /><br />1)Television programming to decrease the self-esteem of black women and men (i don't even want to name the whole list of racist or stereo-typed television shows)<br /><br />2)Welfare- this program was first created to break up the black family...they kept black women down by allowing them to NOT work...if you hand out a free check to someone and tell them they don't have to work..what do you think??DUH!! BW were also NOT allowed to have a man in the house, because that meant you had someone helping to "pay the bills"...pure mess.<br /><br />3)Encouraging women independence- while this may seem like a good thing on the surface, it actually hurts the black families. BW feel "they don't need a man", and while this is true to some regards, a child does need both parents. This is and still is a SYSTEMATIC mind control tool to break up familes and especially black families, listen to the amount of songs that talk about a black woman being independent (Jamie Fox-Independent woman, Destiny Child-Independent women, Bills, Bills, Bills," and the list goes on. Do you see many white artist singing about being independent and having their own?....UH-NOOOOO!<br /><br /><br /><br />I would vote for having that league or organization invented for BW, but the problem is, it only adds to the government's plan by directing attention them. If everyone ignored what John Mayer said, it would have had NO effect at all. BUT, since everyone is talking about and blogging about it,it actually ADDS to their evil cause. UGH!<br /><br />Now,John Mayer was just expressing what most white males have in the back of their mind already. We are ALL predjudice to some degree; thanks to the years of brainwashing from television, radio and media mess. Some rise above it, while most succumb to the brainwashing. John mayers little rant means nothing to me cause I know this "interview" is PLANNED propaganda...NEXT!Bellydancernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-70260957556637000252010-02-15T18:22:18.021+00:002010-02-15T18:22:18.021+00:00Anonymous:
Why are people so quick to down Holly ...Anonymous:<br /><br />Why are people so quick to down Holly Peete and basically call sistahs hurt by this jerk's comments idiots for feeling that way, yet there is so much kid-glove "I don't hate ALL White women" proclamations when someone points out that a White woman asked that stupid question, and that a LOT of White women seem to be behind a lot of the media mess being thrown at us Black women? <br /><br />White women shouldn't get a free pass on their racism towards Black women on Black women's empowerment blogs, of all places.<br /><br /><br /><br />No there's no kid glove treatment from me when it comes to the WW who have agendas especially those who work in the media. Black women have forgotten that white women have broken through their glass ceilings a long while back now, so if some of them feel that because they 'run things' now and that they can pull strings for and against certain groups of people because of their own little agendas well I guess they will. I don't hate all WW but I don't love all of them either especially those who show and have their covert or overt agendas against black women!<br /><br />On Sara's IR blog somebody said that at one time a white woman editor of Cosmo magazine told Naomi Campbell, to her face I'm assuming, that as long as she was head of Cosmo that 'they'd never put a black woman on their cover' and there's a white woman who ran, owned, or use to run the Ford modelling agency and plenty of black people have said that Ford hardly ever likes to sign up black women models to find them work, and someone else on Sara's IR blog also said that Vogue magazine told Vera Wang to use more black models in her shows and she told them that she didn't want to use any black women models, and that she may consider using someone biracial. Which is why Zoe Kravitz, who I'm sure was only used because of her famous parents, was used for Wang's new perfume's ads.<br /><br />Never underestimate anybody's determination to get their agenda across. Overtly or covertly.aknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-1574801668183396782010-02-15T17:43:50.126+00:002010-02-15T17:43:50.126+00:00"I would vote for having that league or organ..."I would vote for having that league or organization invented for BW, but the problem is, it only adds to the government's plan by directing attention them."<br /><br />The ADL is run by its members and not the government. Here is a link describing what they do to protect themselves and their images..<br /><br />http://www.adl.org/about.asp<br /><br />I'm ready when Y'all are....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-91008922404222538952010-02-15T16:43:06.223+00:002010-02-15T16:43:06.223+00:00@ William,
A lot of what you wrote just seems def...@ William,<br /><br />A lot of what you wrote just seems defeatist and fear based. <br /><br />I'm not going to dispute the majority of what you wrote, but however there is a MAJOR mission component missing:<br /><br /><b>The Black Communities, accountability and responsibility to/for themselves.</b> <br /><br />This thing of expecting "White America" to address all the wrongs they've done and make it equal is infantile thinking afaimc. Research history and the present and tell me which other nation/group has tried to correct similar wrongs on the level of the USA.<br /><br />I doubt you'll find it. If anyone can, please do and prove me wrong.(The Holocaust doesn't count. The Allies had to force or put pressure for the Germans to make any reparations).<br /><br /><b> No one can do what you don't allow them. </b> <br /><br />This issue of insulting BW and portraying BW and by large the BC in a negative light would not possible w/o the complacent agreement of BM and BC in current times.<br /><br />After all, I remember some the programs of the 70's, 80's and early 90's. There was a much balanced showing of the various aspects/levels of the AA life.NijaGnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-62568181483379812312010-02-15T13:47:31.863+00:002010-02-15T13:47:31.863+00:00I the UK where I'm living for now, they never ...I the UK where I'm living for now, they never talk about him or show his picture nor talk about him UNLESS it was to say he was going out with Jennifer Anniston AND they'd have to include a picture of her with him in their little media blurbs over here in the UK anyway. <br /><br />Again the only time the UK showed John Mayer doing anything musical or otherwise was when he played the guitar at Michael Jackson's funeral. His songs have not been charted over here on any pop charts, R & B charts nor anything! If it wasn't for Halima, my memory would have to be jogged a lot! <br /><br />Only until someone says the words 'Michael Jackson's funeral' because I watched a big chunk of that! LOLaknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-77177479553412161132010-02-15T13:26:58.438+00:002010-02-15T13:26:58.438+00:00I definitely deleted the one song I had from him r...I definitely deleted the one song I had from him right off of my Ipod! It was the only remotely good one anyway. lol. <br /><br />John Mayer is the last person to be speaking on relationships of any kind. His man-child ways he can't even keep a relationship with a white woman (Jennifer Anniston), and has been stringing her along for years.<br /><br />He's not even attractive, by any means. So if he doesn't like black women. That's good for us. <br /><br />Everyone is entitled to their preferences anyway.Fiinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-55535932611763676842010-02-15T13:14:27.199+00:002010-02-15T13:14:27.199+00:00"Now, the destruction of the black family sta...<i>"Now, the destruction of the black family started in these segments:"</i><br /><br /><br />The destruction of the black family started when black men LEFT black women and the black children they produced with black women.<br /><br />The destruction of the black family started when the majority of black men refused to marry the black women that they were sexing.<br /><br />The destruction of the black family started when the majority of black males who were doing well financially decided to create biracial families with non black women instead of black families with black women. <br /><br />That's when the destruction of the black family started.<br /><br />During the days of slavery a black child was more likely to grow up living with both parents than he or she is today.<br /><br />http://www.divorcereform.org/black.html<br /><br />BLACK MEN killed the black family. Not slavery. Not racism. Not white society. And not white men.<br /><br />DON'T FALL FOR THESE JEDI MIND TRICKS SISTAS.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-7925362367016967392010-02-15T11:36:03.621+00:002010-02-15T11:36:03.621+00:00I may be a little late with this but I'm going...I may be a little late with this but I'm going to add my opinion. I think the reason why John Mayer felt comfortable saying that about black women is because he knows that hardly anyone defend us. I said the same thing on another blog. He knows that some black men degrade us too so he felt that it's ok. Anytime these black men put us down, they give greater permission for non black people to do it too. I feel that's why Don Imus said what he said. Some black men even agreed with him.<br /><br /> The sad part about it is that there are many others that feel the same way including some dbr blacks. It's disturbing because it seem like it's becoming normal for these people to degrade us. I think they intentionally say derogatory things about us to lower our self worth and self esteem. Even some black women will put other black women down not realizing that they are harming themselves too because we already have a negative public image in the minds of a lot of people.<br /><br /> I also think a lot of other non black women also get enjoyment out of seeing us be put down like that. That's their way of feeling superior to us so we can't even depend on other races of women defending us. Many non black women are just as hateful and disrespectful toward us too. They really hate the black women that don't fit the negative stereotpyes. Only like minded black women and our supporters should find ways to combat this disrespectful behavior and negative stereotypes. Sorry for being so longshimmynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-5678863537415737322010-02-15T04:39:51.354+00:002010-02-15T04:39:51.354+00:00@Neecy,
I TOTALLY agree with you about forming s...@Neecy, <br /><br />I TOTALLY agree with you about forming some type of organization or league to stop this; HOWEVER, the media is a slicker, they are planning something sinister against not just BW, but minorities as a whole. The whole John Mayer thing is nothing more than a distraction.<br /><br />Please research "government media mind control" to get a good idea of what I am talking about. The gov invaded the black culture through 'hip-hop' music and rap. To understand this invasion, please look up, "mk ultra celebrities' to learn more.<br /><br />Now, the destruction of the black family started in these segments:<br /><br />1)slavery<br />2)discrimination<br />3)limited education<br />4)government mind control experiments (read on the Tuskegee airman and how the gov allowed the injection of syhllis in unaware black men without their knowledge while watching them suffer...goverment mind control programs like these are STILL going on till this very day (mk ultra, monarch celebrities, ritual sacrafice,child sex slave rings, etc.)<br /><br /><br />Then, in the more recent years, these things happened:<br /><br />1)Television programming to decrease the self-esteem of black women and men (i don't even want to name the whole list of racist or stereo-typed television shows)<br /><br />2)Welfare- this program was first created to break up the black family...they kept black women down by allowing them to NOT work...if you hand out a free check to someone and tell them they don't have to work..what do you think??DUH!! BW were also NOT allowed to have a man in the house, because that meant you had someone helping to "pay the bills"...pure mess.<br /><br />3)Encouraging women independence- while this may seem like a good thing on the surface, it actually hurts the black families. BW feel "they don't need a man", and while this is true to some regards, a child does need both parents. This is and still is a SYSTEMATIC mind control tool to break up familes and especially black families, listen to the amount of songs that talk about a black woman being independent (Jamie Fox-Independent woman, Destiny Child-Independent women, Bills, Bills, Bills," and the list goes on. Do you see many white artist singing about being independent and having their own?....UH-NOOOOO!<br /><br /><br /><br />I would vote for having that league or organization invented for BW, but the problem is, it only adds to the government's plan by directing attention them. If everyone ignored what John Mayer said, it would have had NO effect at all. BUT, since everyone is talking about and blogging about it,it actually ADDS to their evil cause. UGH!<br /><br /><br />Now,John Mayer was just expressing what most white males have in the back of their mind already. We are ALL predjudice to some degree; thanks to the years of brainwashing from television, radio and media mess. Some rise above it, while most succumb to the brainwashing. John mayers little rant means nothing to me cause I know this "interview" is PLANNED propaganda...NEXT!williamsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-26921817825084818492010-02-14T23:10:19.606+00:002010-02-14T23:10:19.606+00:00ITA Magenta.
These are EXCELLENT points you'v...ITA Magenta.<br /><br />These are EXCELLENT points you've made.<br /><br />It's what I and others have been saying all along. Women regardless of "race" will rise OR fall according to the men they align themselves with.<br /><br />The majority of BW have aligned themselves with BM - most of whom are obviously DBR otherwise the statistics related to them, and the children they produce, wouldn't be so negative (70% of black children are being raised solely by their mothers because their fathers have abandoned them which is SHAMEFUL) - out of habit and indoctrination. <br /><br />BW can choose to align themselves with other NON damaged and non colorist men in the global village who ARE willing to provide love, marriage, safety, and security for BW and their children.<br /><br />BW can make this choice TODAY. To CEASE having anything to do with (both online AND off) DBRBM and instead focus like a LAZER BEAM on non damaged quality men.<br /><br />BW who are willing to do this have JUST as many chances of meeting Mr. Right (a family oriented, employed, non colorist, marriage minded gentleman) as every other woman on this planet.<br /><br />But IMO BW are going to have to first let these "black community" notions DIE. Once and for all.<br /><br />Your community is of YOUR making and you determine who is and isn't a member.<br /><br />If a BW can't rely on her community to uplift her, support her (and her best interest), and protect her and her children, then BW need to scr*w it and join and/or form NEW communities that can.<br /><br />Free individual BW who are determined to live and love well - regardless of what happens to the majority of black folks - are doing just this every day.Felicianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-88761204407315972442010-02-14T17:30:05.151+00:002010-02-14T17:30:05.151+00:00I think these comments show a very disturbing tren...I think these comments show a very disturbing trend. I hope this does not rub anyone the wrong way, but I think that men are "predatory" in nature. Meaning that it is in their nature to exploit and dominate women. What prevents men from acting out in this manner the level of protection women have. When women are not protected by the males in their collective, they are sitting ducks. The reason why these hit jobs on BW keep taking place is because it is a known fact BW are NOT protected or valued by their own group. This makes us easy targets. More people will feel comfortable bashing BW because they know they will be no consequences. And just like in the case of Don Imus, DBRBM and their female co-conspirators have already taken amusement and have run to his defense. As crazy as this sounds I think JM's comments actually strengthen the IR/divestment/BWE message. BW have no protection, therefore we are seen as easy marks. DBRs are not satisfied with destroying our currency in the BC, they also want to destroy our currency on the NATIONAL and GLOBAL scene. They want to make BW a permanent "undesirable", so that we can continue to be vulnerable to exploitation. After we are officially declared an undesirable, there is no turning back! This is dangerous stuff. It goes deeper than some dumb musician's comments. Now that the whole nation is on notice that BW are easy targets, we are vulnerable to extreme physical danger. We don't have much longer to save ourselves, we MUST get serious about seeking out quality mates that will serve as protectors. We also seek out vetted allies that we can count on. We must end all non-reciprocal relationships that depreciate our value. We must stop financially supporting those who degrade BW. Like Neecy said we are not going to be able to count on any ethnic group to protect us, but if we are shrewd and diligent we can create our own alliances and power base. But this must be done now!Magentanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-49605530981341172412010-02-14T08:23:04.917+00:002010-02-14T08:23:04.917+00:00Attention!
Please see update on main page<b>Attention!<br />Please see update on main page</b>Halimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13400009793511308799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-54131837548747703252010-02-14T05:28:28.090+00:002010-02-14T05:28:28.090+00:00@Neecy at 4:24 p.m.:
I 100% co-sign. {deep martia...@Neecy at 4:24 p.m.:<br /><br />I 100% co-sign. {deep martial arts bow in salute}<br /><br />Peace, blessings and solidarity.Khadijahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07732325133964607276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-87265072880345290412010-02-14T04:25:03.310+00:002010-02-14T04:25:03.310+00:00This comment is directected at Neecy and I hope yo...This comment is directected at Neecy and I hope you werent referring to me when you mentioned that bw are looking to others to elevate them, having low self-esteem and other stuff. <br /><br />I am FULLY aware that bw are in it alone. I dont think a lot of bw were looking for JM to uplift them and say "I love bw" but his comments were low, asinine and just messed up in general. They were uneeded. Especially when you have bw buying his music. <br /><br />Its not like I purchased hip-hop music were the guy is calling bw names out loud. Thus guy is singing about "Daughters" and things that bw (because we are women) can relate to and he comes out of the blue with hey my penis is like David Duke but I love Kerry Washington BS when you have my money. This was way out of the blue.<br /><br />So whats the solution to this?mekarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03552821356372188310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-92182625964170386862010-02-14T03:29:25.388+00:002010-02-14T03:29:25.388+00:00I'm seeing all these headlines "John Maye...I'm seeing all these headlines "John Mayer hates on bw...." but if he did then why would he name three black women that he thought were attractive? I just think he's immature and he obviously speaks without thinking. People shouldn't read too much into that. Far worse things have been said by black men to black women...seriously.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-83223464599025906932010-02-14T03:27:36.071+00:002010-02-14T03:27:36.071+00:00I used to listen to his music but after his commen...I used to listen to his music but after his comments, I put him in the trash can with all of the other anti-BW musicians. He's a DBRWM, he's open with it and now, I'm not interested with what he has to say.<br /><br />And to piggy-back off of Anon 8:11PM, ANY MAN WHO WORSHIPS BM-LIFESTYLE/MUSIC SHOULD BE AVOIDED. They have been poisoned sand yes, there is Paul Wall but for every Paul Wall, there are 15 Eminems willing to use BW just as badly as DBRBM do. Like others have said, we must VET, VET, AND VET SOME MORE!!kmblue's other profilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12918989984960463226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-24636256803888159982010-02-14T03:24:50.365+00:002010-02-14T03:24:50.365+00:00The only issue I have is with John Mayer saying th...The only issue I have is with John Mayer saying the N word. I am a John Mayer fan, but because he doesn't date BW I shouldn't be? Interesting...so because Michael Jaskson didn't date BW I'm not fan of his??? See what I mean?tlynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00083033015446755253noreply@blogger.com