tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post8516765185710332435..comments2023-06-26T11:23:50.414+01:00Comments on Black, Woman and Winning!: The Results are inUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-14149089134690685082009-09-30T02:09:27.720+01:002009-09-30T02:09:27.720+01:00Smokie is an apologist for Black men.Smokie is an apologist for Black men.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-46085476255983651182009-09-12T02:43:25.625+01:002009-09-12T02:43:25.625+01:00I agree 100% with Bonnie.
IF more Black women app...I agree 100% with Bonnie.<br /><br />IF more Black women applied better vetting skills in regards to the men they date and procreate with, there would be more black children born in black marriages. There would be more black marriages for a few reasons:<br /><br />1) A great majority of BM would be forced to straighten up in order to have a chance with a BW. With fewer women choosing low quality men, BM would step up to the plate.<br /><br />2) BW would be more desirable to black men. Everyone is attracted to someone who values themselves.<br /><br />3) BW would soften up. With the roles re-shifted to align with their original design, BW would be able to give BM the love and support that women of other races so freely give their DESERVING men. That weight that weighs so heavy on BW's shoulders would be lifted. No more feeling undesirable by black men, no more carrying the financial and emotional weight of the relationship.<br /><br />Nature would balance out. We'd have more black marriages and more black children born in those marriages. Interracial dating would be still be encouraged because love is love, but the Black race would eventually thrive.<br /><br />As a personal note, I'm a 37 year old black women married to a 39 year old black man. We have 3 black boys. We're happy. :-) I have black married couple friends. Quality finds quality if it really wants to, even in the current state of the Black family.D C Cainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17598048435166864256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-14555968996271507792009-09-06T00:22:23.165+01:002009-09-06T00:22:23.165+01:00LOVE these last few comments! People are FINALLY t...LOVE these last few comments! People are FINALLY telling it like it is!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-74319064075937608472009-09-05T16:55:08.513+01:002009-09-05T16:55:08.513+01:00"Not necessarily. The DBR black men either do..."Not necessarily. The DBR black men either don’t care or actually desire for women to be sexually loose and non-vetting of men because such women are available to the DBRs and such women are the main source for DBRs to spread their seed." <br /><br />Of course they don't care they would loose what they see as a walking uterus. Now they aren't going to say this. What they are going to go on about is these black females (can't stand when these men say this) today crap. We need to keep our legs closed etc. or be more picky about finding good bm. The thing is most of the think they are good bm. I think it is that some of them have been rejected by bw and they have to boast about how she like da thug etc., but won't bounce wit a good bm. etc. <br /><br />"Those men who criticize such non-vetting women are probably the very men who grew up in two parent households and were exposed to mothers who gave birth while married or in some type of stable relationship. So eliminating single motherhood would mostly reduce the men who don’t complain, not the ones who do."<br /><br />Actually it's most the ones who didn't grow up with one. Many bm who have been raised by bw alone grown up to hate them. And then turn around to tell bw how they need to keep their legs closed, then go around making babies like it's not tomorrow. Boasting about how many babies, baby mammas they got etc. Yes you have the ones who grew up in families, but many also see mothers who alone still had to raise them while dad was physically, but not mentally in the home. You also have ones who were/are raised in 2 parent homes, but they are not unaware of what is going on in the bc, because many either live there or see family etc.<br /><br />And that wouldn't be a bad thing now would it? Black men as a group are some of the most ungrateful, and unappreciative folks around.<br /><br />You'd think they'd be grateful that the baby mamas didn't abort them instead of struggling to raise them alone.<br /><br />But no.<br /><br />Instead they receive resentment and hatred from their collective black sons.<br /><br />Black women need to concentrate on giving birth to children born in marriage and if that means less angry, resentful, ungrateful, "full black" bm mouthing off in future generations, all the better."<br /><br />That's exactly what I'm saying. They do realize there would be no black community (or so called) or at least black Americans that trace back ancestors from slavery in America. We would be extinct!Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-33522102893905645042009-09-01T15:18:09.296+01:002009-09-01T15:18:09.296+01:00Noone is saying that it is necessary. What is bein...<i>Noone is saying that it is necessary. What is being said is that without the oow birth rate most of these bm mouthing off about bw needing to close their legs, picking better men, not having sex at all etc. would not be here if their mothers had done all of those things.</i><br /><br />Not necessarily. The DBR black men either don’t care or actually desire for women to be sexually loose and non-vetting of men because such women are available to the DBRs and such women are the main source for DBRs to spread their seed. <br /><br />Those men who criticize such non-vetting women are probably the very men who grew up in two parent households and were exposed to mothers who gave birth while married or in some type of stable relationship. So eliminating single motherhood would mostly reduce the men who don’t complain, not the ones who do.<br /><br />The problem with the ones who do complain is that they don't equally complain about the DBRs like they do about the "baby mommas". It takes two to tangle.Belindanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-42723752418430946862009-09-01T09:31:04.541+01:002009-09-01T09:31:04.541+01:00Sean, you seem like a nice guy but I think you mis...Sean, you seem like a nice guy but I think you missed Halima's point a bit. Or perhaps I didn't exactly read what you were saying correctly. If you look at the title of her site it's called "Black Women's INTERRACIAL Relationship Circle". No where in any of her articles does she ever condone black women getting together with other races of men. In fact she encourages it just for all the reasons that she has mentioned in this article. Black women are having a hard time with relationships in general, and the ways in which the average black man is exacerbating these problems is only making it worse. Alot of black women don't know that they *do* have options outside of black men and that they should look for a quality man to love regardless of his skin tone. <br /><br />This article is merely pointing out the collective thoughts of alot of black women, not what Halima thinks women should do. Alot of women think that they have to keep the "black" population "alive" and whether it's making babies with a bum of a man or as a single woman, it's alright. Of course, we know it's not because these kids are being raised in households without male direction and with an often over-stressed mom, making it harder for the kid to succeed which makes the collective black population not raise higher up in society. Perhaps you missed the point because her articles are directed to black women and you don't exactly understand the background and context in which her words are coming from. But Halima *does* want black women to seek out interracial relationships with *all* types of men, just as long as they are willing to support her, her family and will love her as a man should. Again: this article is just reflective of the general black collective that assumes that black babies are necessary to keep the black population alive. Not considering that people are just people and that you should focus on you and your family *first* no matter how it looks, and the generations after will prosper in response. *That* is the successful way to keep a population alive. Black women need to learn that they are who they are *not* the black community.<br /><br />I myself am in a relationship with a Taiwanese boy who I've been involved with for over 2 years and I have distant dreams of marrying him after college if our relationship reaches that point by then. And yes, I agree, I think Asian guys in general aren't usually very receptive to the idea of interracial dating but I think that's changing a bit with my generation. I think it'll get better when black women also become more receptive. My boyfriend thought that as a black girl I would never have a crush on him but all I needed to do was flirt a bit and befriend him and a happy relationship was born :) People think our relationship is a bit odd but other than a few confused stares/double takes we've never had any problems. His parents are a different story but I hope I can change their opinions of me (which are based solely on my race).Kalamarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15075301739399371256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-2182498279568578262009-08-31T18:43:52.814+01:002009-08-31T18:43:52.814+01:00..."Noone is saying that it is necessary. Wha......"Noone is saying that it is necessary. What is being said is that without the oow birth rate most of these bm mouthing off about bw needing to close their legs, picking better men, not having sex at all etc. would not be here if their mothers had done all of those things."...<br /><br />And that wouldn't be a bad thing now would it? Black men as a group are some of the most ungrateful, and unappreciative folks around.<br /><br />You'd think they'd be grateful that the baby mamas didn't abort them instead of struggling to raise them alone.<br /><br />But no.<br /><br />Instead they receive resentment and hatred from their collective black sons.<br /><br />Black women need to concentrate on giving birth to children born in marriage and if that means less angry, resentful, ungrateful, "full black" bm mouthing off in future generations, all the better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-50218197779227651632009-08-31T11:55:14.567+01:002009-08-31T11:55:14.567+01:00after reading most of other people's comments,...after reading most of other people's comments, I can say I'm relieved. Although in real life I witness people with views of the author, it's really good that people are growing more open minded.<br /><br />I also want to point out that a lot of people argue quality, referring to financial stability mostly. I personally am not looking for that, but for happiness and love, that really should be the concern- not race, not money. <br /><br />with financial stability you really are just settling, although you can grow & be happy, the foundation is flawed, love should be in your hearts desires- where money doesn't belong, too bad it's such a big deal. but if you keep your eye out for what you really desire, you & your partner combined should be able to accomplish so much & in the end be truly happy. screw the money, it will come along as you progress your lives together. Life really is a lot easier with someone there with you, someone you would give your life for and vise versa.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076156752923701474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-66998293856418038962009-08-31T11:40:11.586+01:002009-08-31T11:40:11.586+01:00I prefer black girls, I shouldn't feel any wro...I prefer black girls, I shouldn't feel any wrong in admitting that fact, but because I want what's best for me & for someone I want to spend the rest of my life with I want to have her instill a passion within me that keeps me striving for her. There is nothing wrong with me wanting to date a black girl, it's ignorant to think all the crap that haters think. It is a superficial world & you really need to be physically attracted to your partner, otherwise you are repressing problems & not being honest- a future disaster. I'm not shallow, that's just the main reason for my preference of black beauty, but it's not only the physical attraction, it's everything about black girls that drive me crazy. I'm not solely attracted to looks to, I seek a personality with depth that I can fall in love with. I know what I want, & to find my dream girl and earn her love is what I want most in this world. But still I get all these mean stares, from black guys, and draw a lot of attention from people when I take a black girl on a date. My point is, I will only be giving my all to my girl when I find her, why should people feel the need to close themselves to many potential opportunities.I apologize for fueling your fear of the black race dying out, but I am actually proud to take out a black girl & show others that black IS beautiful & there is no reason to hate me for appreciating her and making her happy. it's so hard to get to know a black girl & have her take you serious, because of all the bs. Love has no boundaries! <br /><br /><br />it shouldn't be shunned to be diversifying, but proud that there are many people accepting and adoring the black race, so what the children aren't fully black- it's great that so many people are realizing how great it is to be someone who is black, dating a black dude/girl is in demand- there is no & shouldn't be any shame in that.<br />I can't say, because I'm not you, but if I had your views & thought there was such a hatred against blacks, I would be proud that so many people are wanting a black partner, I would be happy that the world is seeing how beautiful our differences are, it's a good sign that times are changing, I wouldn't be worried that black people are dying out by means of love rather than genocide. Black is in demand, be happy :) I'm sad that the poor asian dudes don't really diversify, but maybe that group needs more of a movement like this.<br /><br />It is a good turn of events & great that the black race is mixing in with many different people, because there are a lot of reasons why many black people have grown to feel this way, but this change in time is proof that your worries shouuld end & the future of the black race is not grim, but beautiful as it is accepted, not resented as once thought, & not only is it accepted, but it's hot on the market. Be happy for all the beautiful mixed raced generations to come- it really is the only hope to end racism, we will all end up with everything eventually making racism obsolete.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076156752923701474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-28424203857294447392009-08-31T11:40:01.649+01:002009-08-31T11:40:01.649+01:00I just replied to another blog of yours I came acr...I just replied to another blog of yours I came across & was intrigued by your views on things- I just want to understand you.<br /><br />I want to understand your goal, and let you know why I disagree with you, but I want to see how you are who you are & try to agree with you- to relate, because many people share your outlook & I want to end all this that shouldn't be troubling us in life.<br /><br />I believe there shouldn't be a concern to preserve a "race" we are all people & that is just the course of life, evolution, we are all the same really- it shouldn't matter & as one comedian pointed out we are all going to be philippino in a few generations.<br /><br />As I've mentioned before I'm not black, I'm white & asian, but I have a black son & I'm actually proud and excited for his diversity. <br /><br />animals & even humans in historic events die out for not diversifying. illnesses & disorders become rampant- in other words it is very beneficial to be so genetically mixed. The ancient egyptians would have died out from this specific dilemma if they were not pillaged and raped. <br /><br />I am proud, and even more so, excited to have a son from all around the world- it should be obvious why it is beneficial, he's got very healthy genes. <br /><br />But what you are saying is I shouldn't be proud, in fact I'm doing something wrong? I am, or the mother should realize she is contributing to the death of blacks? views like this, which many people hold tell my children that they should not accept themselves & be ashamed for being only half black.<br /><br />I grew up ashamed of being asian, it is not a good feeling & one I shouldn't have grown with- I don't want my kids to be ashamed for their race. I dealt with racism & haters as well, but I never thought the world was out to get me & stick with my race. I know it's rampant & black people have valid reasons- because most racists are vocal against blacks, but the world is not like that. Shit I have had many racist experiences too, I've been robbed & had shit started w/ me by so many black people, but that shouldn't lead me to believe that black people are no good & they are all out to get me. It sounds stupid right? because it is.<br />Where you are comin from is more real & there are many that agree with you that convince one of this kind of view. All I wish for is to not let it get to you, & people will learn how ignorant they are to spread such hate.<br /><br />no, the mother and I are not married, it was a one night stand type situation. But in the end, nothing is wrong here & my children & us as a family will be living proof of how life should be.<br /><br />But I want to know why you feel like instigating such a movement, you'd rather ignore the benefits of diversity? you don't think that separating yourself by race is contributing to a life outlook that is very negative. can you at least empathize with my excitement- that my love for my family will show all the ignorant racists that we are in fact all people with two ears, two eyes, walk up right etc.<br /><br />realize that our differences are what makes us great & shut the haters up by example. <br />It is our differences that we should place our pride in, being proud of being a certain race rather than another isn't where you should place your pride.<br /><br />I really believe in my outlook on life, but I need to know if the author or any who shares her outlook can understand my points as objective not subjective. I would like to know how my view reaches you & know why you disagree with anything. Is it so wrong for me to strive for what attracts me, is it wrong for me to find someone who I only want to be happy with & live life to the fullest? <br /><br /><br />I wrote my "comment" over the character limit, so I'm posting the rest next...Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076156752923701474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-61949965115259510762009-08-31T00:01:49.830+01:002009-08-31T00:01:49.830+01:00I don’t believe that OOW births are necessary in t...I don’t believe that OOW births are necessary in the AA community to prevent extinction. Eliminating OOW births will in my opinion trigger an increase in births within marriage and may also trigger more marriage in that becomes necessary to keep the population growing. Nature works that way.<br /><br />Noone is saying that it is necessary. What is being said is that without the oow birth rate most of these bm mouthing off about bw needing to close their legs, picking better men, not having sex at all etc. would not be here if their mothers had done all of those things.Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-79859873530392580472009-08-26T16:39:27.632+01:002009-08-26T16:39:27.632+01:00Um Halima, glad that you're taking care of you...Um Halima, glad that you're taking care of yourself and that you're on a break, but I'd be LYIN if I didn't say I come here almost everyday hoping for a new post. :)<br /><br />Got me hooked. Take careAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-41762949045103596902009-08-26T00:30:58.853+01:002009-08-26T00:30:58.853+01:00increase in births within marriage and may also tr...increase in births within marriage and may also trigger more marriage in that becomes necessary to keep the population growing. <br /><br />@Bonnie<br />We (black men and women) are not getting married so what are you talking about?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-46982177323378681672009-08-24T21:10:25.827+01:002009-08-24T21:10:25.827+01:00But in the context of your argument AAs are doing ...<i>But in the context of your argument AAs are doing many things that are contrary to both survival and nature and have been doing so for a long time.</i><br /><br />No, AAs are doing things contrary to a healthy and prosperous society by Western standards. As far as literal survival, AAs are doing just that and are increasing in population. It is estimated that the AA population will increase to 60 million by 2050. There is not a question of AA survival, but rather a question of the quality of life of the general AA population. Either most of our children will be born OOW or within wedlock. Either way, those children will be born. Nature doesn’t care about a culture’s quality as long as the population continues to grow.<br /><br />I don’t believe that OOW births are necessary in the AA community to prevent extinction. Eliminating OOW births will in my opinion trigger an increase in births within marriage and may also trigger more marriage in that becomes necessary to keep the population growing. Nature works that way.Bonnienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-63447088124644312252009-08-23T00:11:56.671+01:002009-08-23T00:11:56.671+01:00@ Pamela,
I am wondering why more married Blacks ...@ Pamela,<br /><br />I am wondering why more married Blacks are barely having one child as well. That is just odd. But I don't think that it should rest on any BW single or otherwise to bear the burden of keeping the Black race growing. <br /><br /><br /><br />@ Bonnie,<br /><br />I am not exactly following you. <br /><br />"The first law of nature is survival and nature tends to maintain balance." <br /><br /><br />But in the context of your argument AAs are doing many things that are contrary to both survival and nature and have been doing so for a long time. <br /><br />BM just don't want BW - not in an honorable way at least. That is the bottom line and they actively practice racism and sexism against BW. I don't see that changing at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-77998753641351051192009-08-21T20:25:37.800+01:002009-08-21T20:25:37.800+01:00please note that without OOW there would be almost...<i>please note that without OOW there would be almost no black population for the future.</i><br /><br />I honestly have to disagree with this and I will tell you why. At face value, it would seem like the OOW birth rate is currently essential to maintain the black population, but in all likelihood, a reduction in the OOW birth rate would result in an increase in the in wedlock birthrate. The first law of nature is survival and nature tends to maintain balance. Birthrates tend to increase when a large part of a population dies for some reason (baby boomers are good examples). If black folks stop having children out of wedlock, married blacks will begin having more children and quite possibly, more black folks will marry. Nature somehow tends to adjust human biology and behavior to maintain the survival of a population.<br /><br />Also, the average number of children residing in a household whereas their parents are married is probably higher than the number of children born in a household whereas their parents are married. Many black couples begin childbearing before taking those vows. If those couples for some reason stop having children out of wedlock, they would simply have all of their children in wedlock instead of having some or all before wedlock.<br /><br />And lastly, if folks stop having children out of wedlock, those children will be less likely to have children out of wedlock themselves because having children OOW will not be the norm. This will result in more children would be born in wedlock.Bonnienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-11075994581713784122009-08-19T15:05:25.355+01:002009-08-19T15:05:25.355+01:00Bellydancer said:
This is so evident on youtube wh...Bellydancer said:<br />This is so evident on youtube where there are tons of videos blaming feminism and professional woman for the demise of the black community.<br /><br />How true!? And sad to boot, especially for women my age. In all of my classes, there are more women, than men, and in classes where it is an even split, the black men in the class are foreign born! They are NOT black american men. However, when I walk home there are scores, and scores, of black men hanging out, dealing, drinking, cussing, and harassing women who pass by.<br /><br />But, like I was saying earlier, it does us NO GOOD to point out the failure of black men to step up, without pointing out how this links to patriarchy and male privilege. I just posted a 'Black Male Privileges' list at my blog to point out how black men benefit from this "blame the black woman/feminist" way of thinking.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-74915945545111194392009-08-19T14:11:36.346+01:002009-08-19T14:11:36.346+01:00Some people may take that survey the wrong way and...Some people may take that survey the wrong way and start saying mess like bw need to get their act together and forget about having careers, ya'll need to start having babies. This is so evident on youtube where there are tons of videos blaming feminism and professional woman for the demise of the black community.<br />I see it like this bw need to be more selective with whom they are having kids with.<br />Babies born out of wedlock have a disadvantage from birth due to lack of resources. Even if the parents are married black children still have some disadvantages in home income,education and their housing situation depending on how strong the parent's marriage is.bellydancernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-12387533009522377212009-08-18T15:18:41.458+01:002009-08-18T15:18:41.458+01:00"Black women need to be concerned with the ch..."Black women need to be concerned with the children they bare in marriage with their husbands."<br /><br />AMEN SISTAFRIEND! Wish you weren't anon, and if you're not blogging, start! lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-12535148802254784922009-08-18T14:48:38.302+01:002009-08-18T14:48:38.302+01:00Is there not the option of married black women cho...<i>Is there not the option of married black women choosing to have more children?</i><br /><br />You know, this is food for thought. I was reading some statistical information that showed that the OOW birthrate for blacks has basically been steadily declining for 40 years and is significantly lower than it was in the early 70s. Hispanic women currently have a higher OOW birth rate than black women.<br /><br />What is high among blacks is the PERCENTAGE of OOW births and this is due to the even greater decline in the number of children born to married blacks. Married blacks on average have fewer children than married folks of any other racial/ethnic group in the U.S. So it begs the question of why married blacks are choosing to have so few children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-73552687291504507602009-08-18T12:26:28.593+01:002009-08-18T12:26:28.593+01:00"Yep those who blame black women for having O...<b><i>"Yep those who blame black women for having OOW please note that without OOW there would be almost no black population for the future."</i></b><br /><br />Please note that the continuation of the black race in America (one already mixed) is not the job of black women. If the black race, a minority in America, were to totally cease in this country black people would continue to exist.<br /><br />Because most blacks live in Africa. Then, you have Brazil, and the Caribbean.<br /><br />Let BM care about "racial survival". That burden will not be placed on me.<br /><br />Black women can continue this breeder mentality if they want to but they will continue to not get any respect from BM or anyone else in this country.<br /><br />Black racial survival in this country which makes up 4 percent of the earths population is not an issue black women need to be concerned with.<br /><br />Even when black women have these OOW black children it still doesn't guarantee black descendants. Because children - especially BM children - do what they want to do when they grow up.<br /><br />Obama's deceased mother had black identified Grandchildren. It did not kill her.<br /><br />And black women having white identified Grandchildren won't kill them either.<br /><br />The complexion and racial identity of ones descendants is totally out of ones control.<br /><br />Black women need to be concerned with the children they bare in marriage with their husbands.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-60792046002656027282009-08-18T02:47:14.636+01:002009-08-18T02:47:14.636+01:00Yep those who blame black women for having OOW ple...<i>Yep those who blame black women for having OOW please note that without OOW there would be almost no black population for the future.</i><br /><br />Is there not the option of married black women choosing to have more children?Pamelanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-18765749550738857952009-08-17T13:30:04.581+01:002009-08-17T13:30:04.581+01:00hello... hapi blogging... have a nice day! just vi...hello... hapi blogging... have a nice day! just visiting here....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-28516839164849479642009-08-15T00:54:34.771+01:002009-08-15T00:54:34.771+01:00BWF thank you. BTW ladies Divine Purpose and alad...BWF thank you. BTW ladies Divine Purpose and aladydivine are the same. Both are me, one is the name I use on blogs the other the name of my blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29718807.post-16807467409971618182009-08-14T22:02:12.362+01:002009-08-14T22:02:12.362+01:00WE DO NOT NEED black men to be our husbands/father...WE DO NOT NEED black men to be our husbands/fathers of our children. Good man does NOT = black<br /><br />____________________<br /><br />Girl you better preach it!!IeshaDressesCutehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02355332396355992696noreply@blogger.com