Monday, April 16, 2012

Black women not ready to stop being spat on by Black males

...This is the reason why we preach for black women to disconnect themselves from the larger body of black women and seek their own individual joy. When you do this you ensure your sanity and ensure yourself a good life, away from black female 'willing victims' and women who are still happy to be spat on and degraded by black men and thus who ensure that more muck from black men is heading their way.
She thinks its funny
...to have a cake this gruesome

Indeed in the most recent example we have the black male actor Kevin Hart, involved in tweeting and posting vile stuff about black women and you would think that that would be enough to raise the self preservation instinct in black women at least enough to do what they need to do to put an end to these irresponsible, almost weekly acts of public degradation of black womanhood by black men. Instead what you get is black woman after black woman rushing to defend the black male actor and bending over backwards to both excuse and deny the intent of his actions, as if it is nothing for them to be spat on and disrespected.

Black women must be the only target audience for whom studio executive and casting directors do no due dilligence, and cant be bothered to ensure that the actors (the men these women will be watching) have a clean and respectful past with their target audeince. Instead and increasingly we are seeing black men who have raped and beat down and said the most vile things against black women getting some of the most plum roles in black cinema!

Do you know why black women have no sympathy for themselves?

One clear reason is that black women are trained to cast themselves as the broad-shouldered and mature adult viz a viz black men. When issues of black men and their situation etc come up for discussion, black women immediately slip themselves into the role of the adult who should therefore be understanding and symptahetic in their view of black men (as the adult in the situation) and regard black men's actions in the most sympathetic of ways even when these men are brutalizing black women.

You need to disengage yourself from any notion that, "We have to be understanding and concerned about black men because they suffer and are victimized." Its time to tell all and sundry that you have run out of sympathy for black men and whatever little sympathy you have left you want to now focus on poor black women especially black girls who have had to go without care and concern from anybody from forever.

Tell folks who want to recruit you to black men's sympathy and excusing club, that you are no longer willing to be cast as the big sister, the older mature one viz a viz black men, and that you now duly and willingly elevate black men to the same level as yourself ie as a mature, competent person who should be held to an adult standard and adult responsibilty for their actions and not excused/understood in their agression and brutality because somehow they are the 'infants' and the victims in the arrangement!


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13 comments:

E.N. said...

Brilliant post! I will not be throwing my money away to Think Like A Man for this reason. Actually, I can't remember the last time I paid to watch a "black film".

Also, Kevin Hart has NEVER been funny!

E.N. said...

Brilliant post! Slightly off-topic, but I won't be throwing my money away to see Think Like a Man for this reason. Actually, I can't remember the last time I watched a "black film".

Also, Kevin Hart has NEVER been funny!

CHER! said...

Greetings Halima!

It's been observed that those Black women will spend money time & time again on this junk, in expectation that "this time" is somehow different...Even lab rats who get shocked a few times will stop touching the wire!

ak said...

Thank you Halima for showing us also what some WW and what alot of the continental Europeans REALLY are like! LOL

I appluad white and black Americans for putting the foreigners in their place when they arrive in THEIR country but stupid Britain these days refuses to do that which is strange as 30 years ago the Brits would have put foreigners in their place when they start getting face-ty just like the Americans continue to do!

I hope and PRAY that David Cameron takes the UK out of the EU at last (stupid Edward Heath and his 'joining up with Europe' foolishness!) I mean if the Swedish neighbour Norway can stay out of the EU why can't we?

Make face-ty foreigners who see blacks as inferiors and caricatures come OUT of the darned country! There mere, unwanted presence in London and the rest of the UK does NOT equate to 'diversity'! They need to change their ways or come out of the UK before I recognise any 'diversity' lip service!

ak said...

Thank you Halima for showing us also what some WW and what alot of the continental Europeans REALLY are like! LOL

I appluad white and black Americans for putting the foreigners in their place when they arrive in THEIR country but stupid Britain these days refuses to do that which is strange as 30 years ago the Brits would have put foreigners in their place when they start getting face-ty just like the Americans continue to do!

I hope and PRAY that David Cameron takes the UK out of the EU at last (stupid Edward Heath and his 'joining up with Europe' foolishness!) I mean if the Swedish neighbour Norway can stay out of the EU why can't we?

Make face-ty foreigners who see blacks as inferiors and caricatures come OUT of the darned country! There mere, unwanted presence in London and the rest of the UK does NOT equate to 'diversity'! They need to change their ways or come out of the UK before I recognise any 'diversity' lip service!

arthur said...

I can't recall having ever seen anything that actually stunned and horrified me the way that article did. I was literally staring at the screen with my mouth open, trying to process what my eyes were reporting.

I've known for a long time what 'progressives' racial views really are, but it is most disturbing that this lot of politicians felt comfortable with such a public display of it.

Karen said...

I find it fascinating the indignation shown against the behavior of the WW on the internet but little is said about the "artist" that is profiting by throwing black women under the bus.

This same behavior is played out by Black men ALL THE TIME and yet the responses are consistently quite muted.

Only when the perpetrator is white do Black women seem to get upset otherwise they appear (by the way they spend their money) to continually support Black males that demonstrate very clearly that they hate us.

I would never pay someone to put their foot on my neck and press down yet that seems to be the message that many black women send when the perpetrator is a black male (i.e. it is okay and I will pay you to do it).

Back to the travesty called "art", would this be okay if it was a cake made of a white woman and everyone ate her breast to symbolize a mastectomy for cancer awareness or a Jewish victim of the holocaust to continue awareness that such things should never happen again..? I don't think so, therefore, yes this is in every sense an abomination!

4BlackWomenONLY said...

We have a long way to go. The film (based on a book which insults the black woman's intelligence) which cast a man who called black women "broke ass dark hoes" raked in $33 million at the box this weekend.

Black women would rather have a laugh than to be respected overall. They have no problem making their image into a minstrel show, a mockery of womanhood. They are so desperate for black male attention that will ignore his abuse. It's sad but those who seek BWE must separate themselves from the females with no self-esteem.

squarlymade said...

That picture is the perfect depiction of what many black men would like to do to black women. Lay us before the world to be demolished with the goal of others having complete merriment and pleasure.

These young and poor and segregated black women and girls are really at the most risk after those bw-for-profit-black male-promoters ride through.

ak said...

Karen my attitude toward what the artist has done isn't quiet and passive but European mindsets are not highly above the American mindsets just because some Americans have never applied for a passport before this is why everybody, every individual, needs to be vetted.

You don't have to explain to me anyway that BM try to slay, physically and spiritually, many BW and black girls every day, believe me I know, I've been seing it, and I've heard it. I don't ever teara blind eye to black perpatrators just because they're black, whether they're black men or black women.

I'm a black woman so I'd very much love for there to be a day in my lifetime that black women's spirits remain whole, untouched, and protected for the most part. Where there's a will there's a way but not if BW are hellbent on lining the pockets of the people denigrating them or ignoring them.

Zoe said...

I wondered how they would dare do that but when I found out a black man designed the piece of 'art' the pieces of the puzzle suddenly fit.

I hear bw always asking where all this hatred for bw 'suddenly' appeared from. I tell them it has been there for a long time, only that with sites like youtube etc, the hate is now coming out to the fore. A LOT of white people are perplexed by this. They don't talk about it openly but they do notice lol!

As for bw not being ready to stop being spat on by black males, I have come to accept the reality that not all bw are ready to leave blackistan.

Some will remain there adamantly supporting the very people that spit on the. Others talk about these things but somehow they seem unable to take action and actually move on.

Only the third category of bw will make it. Those that not only recognize what time it is, but are also ready and willing to cut off everything that has held them back and move on.

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