Goodbye and Goodnight Karlheinz
Karlheinz the Actor
Some of you might have
seen this play out in your search for the right diet for you. Because
of your own particular psychology calorie counting might not
have worked. You might have tried dozens of methods, approaches and each
tried 10 times before discarding. At the end you realise one particular method with a
strange individual twist will give you the results you desire, and then
you plateau and have to start the discovery process all over again.
The idea is never to give up. If you are a single woman you might have got to a point where you realize that you have to discard everything you know
or have been told about settling down, and painstakingly map out a new strategy by trial and error. Some of
us realized that we had to start from scratch with how to put
ourselves together, diet and fitness and then putting ourselves in
prime locations to meet guys. You might have come to this realization after years
of thinking it would just happen, or those precious years sitting up in
church praying and thinking one of the few brothers would take notice. But realising
there is a journey ahead can require you gathering yourself and
purposefully setting out.
I went to watch the
film 'Edge of Tomorrow' with Tom Cruise and Emily Blunt.
I don’t want to give too
much away however one thing I really dug about the film was the pain-staking way they followed and tested each strategy until they arrived
at the successful method to their goal of destroying the enemy. At
one point the character played by Tom Cruise admitted that they had
tested just one little section of the process a dizzying 300 times! It
requires watching to understand but suffice it to say that sometimes
you have to build your strategy to success by painstaking trail and
error, noting down what works and what doesn’t, testing your
theories in real life circumstances until you can say, 'I know the
way.' Then you become an expert with a deeper insight. And you know
that you know, that you know how to get there!
Halima is out for the Summer. See you Aug 30!
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